Signs! Signs! Everywhere! Signs !

I ask for signs, and I get them everyday...


Let me tell you something, folks - I am strange. I am that weird friend. You know who I am talking about. I am that one friend that everyone has who totally dismisses the idea that there is an entire multitude of people who think that I am "funny-peculiar," and I tell you what, I would not have it any other way. If you are even a small part of my life (and I am talking infinitesimal, even), know now that it is not a mistake - I asked Spirit to enrich me with your presence, and as per usual, Spirit did not let me down.

Spirit never does.

HEY ! PAY ATTENTION !


OK, you know when you are thinking about something or someone and suddenly they text you, or the song that you guys liked plays on the radio, or you pass a billboard that automatically makes you think about them, and then they call you? Or...yeah...when you are thinking about someone and they call you?

That is what Carl Jung referred to as Synchronicity. Synchronicity can be called 'meaningful coincidence.' It is not an accident. NOTHING in existence is an accident. Everything that happens does so because it is part of a chain of events that we each set into motion when we first have that thought that we are desirous of something.

I said it last year. I am saying it this year, too.


...and I will continue to say it, over and over again, not because no one is listening but because it is so true and it totally applies to this moment in time. You are reading this at this very moment in time because you have called on Spirit to guide you to do what it was or is that you have so desired to do for many years now, and I am pretty sure that you did not think about it in that manner until right now because it never dawned on you that you are presently watching the miracle called Your Own Life unfold. It is going to take work for this miracle to become your reality, and it is going to be the thing that will permeate your deepest seated Desires as well as those things that you do not desire, and even more, those things, people, situations that you no longer want as part of your present consciousness.

NEVER forget that the Now is the most important time in your life. Now is that time that you are actively thinking about what you are desirous of, and it is at this moment that the seed of Desire has been planted, and yes, I did that on purpose.

We cannot have change in our lives until we actively and willingly see to it that we activate those power centers within us to bring the changes into our own realities. That is the truth, guys, and there is no way around that one truth. NOT ONE OF US can just wish new things into our lives - it takes actual work, takes actual pride in that work, in that intention, and it takes a whole lot of faith, in your Self, in your gifts, and in Whomever It Is that you ask assistance of when no one else is around to hear You do that. There is no shame in asking for assistance - that is the purpose of meditation, of gaining clarity and of simply Knowing that You harbor a deep and persistent, real and true to Life Love and Desire for that thing you Do.

And we all know that when there is that one thing that each one of us does, and it is requested that assistance be given and we get that assistance, there is no better feeling of success than knowing one's own success is already in the Now, because we have had the faith in our gift and our selves to see that intention to fruition. It is not a mistake, those little things that seem like they are flukes or are coincidental - there are NO coincidences. That which we ask for we absolutely get, no matter what it is. Really. What we want, we get, but we really, really have to want it, all the way down to our weary and tired-of-crying bones.

There is another side of this, though, and it will do you very well to not forget that you can have no doubts that you will have what it is that you want, because just as you will get what you want, you also get what you really do NOT want. It happens this way because even though our desire for a thing is real and big and constant, so, too, is the idea that we won't get what we want. In fact, we put more energy into getting ourselves to think that we will never have what it is that we truly and absolutely desire because the horrible truth is that each of us does not believe that we deserve to have whatever it is that we totally want.

Ain't that about a bitch?


Here we all are, all talented and gifted and stuff, and we do not have faith in our abilities, in our intuitive nature, in anything that is remotely ours alone, yet we each depend on that one thing to get us through to the next day, through the bullshit that we all end up having to go through, and when push comes to shove, we want to just give up,preferring to not have to deal with the heartaches that come with trying to bring a dream to fruition.

I know this because about a week ago I went through it myself.

I am in Love with my culture, the Hawaiian culture, and like most other Hawaiian women, as a child I was started with hula by being introduced to it when I was 4 years old. The very first memory that I have of this beautiful and graceful show of Aloha was being a tiny little girl, not quite 4 yet, and seeing my mother dance in our living room. I'd never seen my mother in such beautiful and spiritual repose. And yes, repose is the right word, because hula is entrancing to the point where the mind and the body rest in a quietly awesome spiritual trance.

Even at that time in my life, I knew then what I know now - I am a dancer, I have always been a dancer, and I will always be a dancer. I will dance this dance until I can no longer stand, and even if I have to use a cane, I will figure out a way to dance, cane in hand, beautiful spirit of Love in my heart, because that is, in part, what I was born to do. No, not only dance hula for the rest of my life, but to effectively communicate beauty and grace to the rest of the world as my own personal ministry of Love and Hope.

Hey man, communication is not only the written word for me. It is far more, and hula is only one part of it, just like writing is only one part of it. "That thing" that I do is being masterful at communicating to others, through whatever means needed, whatever it is that a person, or a group of persons, needs to know. I do not know what it is that they need to know, and I cannot tell anyone how it is that they are supposed to make their own dreams come to fruition, at least not in a "Hey, you need to do this and that other thing over there will happen," but more in a "Ya know, maybe you can try to do things this way and maybe what you want to happen will happen...just sayin'..." kind of way.

My gift is that of communication, is that of making clear to others those little signs and such...those little synchronicities which visit our lives and invade our thinking and make us know that it is not only coincidence that we are experiencing what we are experiencing. Again...no accidents....none.

What? Do you need a kick to the head?


If ever there were anything that bugs the crap outta me more than a know it all, it is a know it all who knows nothing and all he or she has are their statistics. These are people who live only from the ego's point of view, and in their own self-aggrandizement they fail to see what is underneath all the pomp and circumstance of keeping up appearances. To these people a coincidence is not meaningful and holds absolutely no truth to it whatsoever. To them facts written in a book are far more believable than are the poetic ramblings of those whose excited demeanor begs the question to be asked, "So, what are you all happy-ass'd for? What are ya, on crack or something?"

To those who believe that what is concrete and what is thought of as 'evidenced' by statistical data and further scientific proof there is no ethereal nature, not only to the Universe but also none to mankind. This is the finest tragedy of all - humankind cannot seem to get its own big old swollen head and swollen ego out of its own damned way, and THAT is the reason why it seems that even as dreams do come true, dreams take forever to do so, and besides, we're all gonna die eventually anyway, right?

Yeesh !!

Whatever it is that you are supposed to be doing will be evident, because that which we are supposed to be doing, that we know we should be doing, that we were meant to do and were brought into this life to do will bring us the most blissful feeling of joy that once experienced can never be copied and will always be sought after. And the funny thing about it being sought after is that in truth the thing that we were meant to do, that we're supposed to be doing will never NOT bring about joy, joy that needs to explanation and no reason for being. It just Is.

The other side of the fun stuff


The thing about having and getting what you want is also knowing that what you do not want you also will get, provided that you concentrate more on what you don't want instead of what you do want. SO, in case you were wondering why it is that every time you wish and ask for things, not only do you get and experience getting what you want, you also get and experience that which you so, so, so do not want as well.

You see, when thinking in terms of what we want, we also tend to think about what we don't want. Then we think about what we don't want in relation to what we do want and what happens then is that we totally forget about wanting what we want without not wanting what we do not want. SO, when you are thinking about what you want, you have to act as though you already have it, as though it is in process, because it really is in process, and no matter what, when you start to doubt that you will get what it is that you want, rip it apart and find out why it is that you believe that you deserve what it is that you want but that you do not believe that you will get it. Once you do that, the rest will follow suit, good or bad - it doesn't matter because we get what we focus our attention on the very most.

Your signs are there


Pay attention to the things that seem like they are coincidence, because that which we deem as being coincidental is really not coincidental but is rather and really instead your sign of things to come. When we ask for the things that are the very wishes of our hearts and souls, it is from the place of the Spirit where these coincidences. When we wish for and ask for things and situations, we pay little attention to the signs and the signals that we should be paying attention to. It could be a song on the radio, or someone can say something that will spark the thought in your head - that, again, is no accident. These are your signs, and it would serve you well to pay attention to them.

Not paying attention makes you have those thoughts that you know you are totally worth what it is that you want, but that you probably are not ever going to have them, because that is what you keep telling yourself.
Here's an idea...do something crazy, like trusting the Spirit which guides you to lead you to where you need to be in order to have the things that you want.

Yeesh!! It ain't rocket science. Ask and receive- that is the Law of the Universe.

It will pan out as soon as you stop breaking the law!!

...Roxanne...